Wins And Losses

Any Individual taking a significant amount of actions towards a goal will experience and encounter losses. When an intelligent and thinking individual encounters alot of losses in life he starts to take the viewpoint of preventing losses. So he starts to focus on losses.

This is the wrong way to do things. All this viewpoint does is place emphasis on the losses and gives them power in the individuals life. Because the losses then how power in the individuals life they multiply and magnify. They become bigger, less able to handle or manage and therefore future losses become bigger and less able to handle and manage.

The solution is to focus only on and place emphasis and focus on the wins.

I do not care what anyone says, An unhappy, miserable and lifeless individual is less capable than a happy, carefree and expansive individual.

Take this example: Imagine someone very close to you died or passed away, This person may have been a close ally and helped you through uncertain times. Depending on who you are you could be quiet torn up about it. Now imagine trying to go to work and trying to do or produce your best work. It becomes more difficult. You become less able to produce and perform.

This is a more extreme version but the same degree of effect of an individual who focuses only on the losses in life. However focusing on losses is of a much worse degree of severity. You focus on losses. You give them power in your life, They weigh on your and pull in more losses and more losses until basically you cannot function in a specific area of life.

You start to withdraw from life, Withdraw from people and withdraw from activities.

This is the route to complete failure, an insidious way of thinking which over the course of a lifetime leads to a lowering of individual ability and capacity.

The solution is that everyday you focus on the wins and solely the wins. Ignore any and all losses. Create rules and policies which allow you to win more, not to limit or avoid losses.

When your down, write down about all your wins in life, not all your losses in life.

The only difference between a winner and loser is a winner focuses only on his wins and a loser focuses only on his losses.

This philosophy will make you impervious to any and all loses in the long run.

If every time you had a loss, You shifted your attention and went focused on every single win you've every had. Your life would be much better than it is now.